Justifying the Name

Finally, i could find the courage to put this thing on sale. Friends, i officially announce the opening of my blog. Congratulations and encouragements are always welcomed. Naahhh, who cares. Just put on some good comments and that shall do. All brilliant ideas strike the mind when your are in deep shit. And so was the case with me. I was half way through nature's call, when i thought of writing my own blog. For an average guy, with nothing so special to boost about except some piece of writing can be a pretty good deal. I had some old writings of mine which can be added. And if this works out well, few more shall be on the way.
The very first question, what shall i name it. No baby was born, so no extra time was supposed to be spent on this. I just googled out Amit, and it said a hell lot of things about me. To my surprise most of it came out to be true. Was it some kind of sorcery.Try it out for your own with the link http://www.first-names-meanings.com/.
Some of my highlights were.

• Amit   is an attractive man who exudes an air of peace and calm. His discreet and reserved manner reflects a certain mystery which only adds to his undeniable charm.
• Amit   is a sensitive man (although he doesn´t always know how to show it) who is often influenced by the family environment in some way or another.
• It is completely useless to try to get him to talk at all costs if he has decided on the contrary: you´ll only embarrass him and you might as well bang your head against a brick wall for all the difference it´ll make. 
• Consciously or unconsciously, he cultivates mystery in his secret garden (two letters with a value of 7 in a four letter name), and certainly prefers to remain silent than engage in small talk
• He appreciates power, success and tangible assets. He is ambitious and very capable of mustering all of his courage, strength and energy in order to obtain his heart´s desire, which is to surpass himself, to excel and to win.
• Likewise, in romance he is enigmatic, perplexing and just beyond the reach of human understanding, and this actually applies as much to his friendships as it does to his love relationships.

All of these concluded that Amit is an ocean of mystery and trying to understand him, could lead people to bang their head unnecessarily.

A Perfect Spider Web

They say life becomes beautiful if you deliver a genuine smile. And a genuine smile turns up, when you see good things around you. Its been a year since i left home to start a new journey. A journey called life on ur own. Post college, i have realized how difficult it is to earn a handsome respect. Our culture teaches us to get tied to relationships and maintain a level of humbleness. And here i get to see the cons of our culture.

If you want to crack a joke about someone, think 100 times before delivering it. But in college, even if the person felt bad, then the same old Odia dialogue ***** *** ****. Honestly speaking, you learn to be a man if you behave. So all the male folks, if you want to have a good wife respecting you, start behaving like a man not a hooligan. 

I still remember the Raymond ad. A cool man drawn  into an awesome tuxedo and his wife resting her palms on his shoulders. Transition is a terrible thing to accept. But seriously, gone are the days when we could look at a girl, self activate our hormones and pass a lousy comment at her. 

Drawing attention to a genuine smile. Coming from office in a hot summer, if someone offers you a chilled glass of water. It feels divine. Something similar happened to me, when i saw the smile on this pretty woman's face. I fell in love with this girl and lucky me, she fell for me too. Maybe my smile comprising of some twisted teeth drew her attention towards me. Now i could justify my genuine smile. Her beautiful smile was always proportional to mine.We stay far away from each other, but the reason of smile is always the same.

I always had the urge to be respected by others. And this woman taught me how to gain respect. I played many a gamble in my life. Changed my style of living, adjusted to the  need of hour and justified my statement of being versatile in my CV. Then i started realizing if my versatility was on the higher side. You can mold 1kg of gold into any shape you feel like. But if you try remolding it repeatedly, its quality and quantity shall no longer be retained. 

A spider cannot stay on his web, if the edges are not held tightly from the center. And to balance the web, he has to locate the center perfectly.

Trying to build a strong balance in life, but still searching for the perfect center. The good part is, a spider never leaves the web incomplete. Can i be like the spider? Guess all spiders are not that bad.