They say life becomes beautiful if you deliver a genuine smile. And a genuine smile turns up, when you see good things around you. Its been a year since i left home to start a new journey. A journey called life on ur own. Post college, i have realized how difficult it is to earn a handsome respect. Our culture teaches us to get tied to relationships and maintain a level of humbleness. And here i get to see the cons of our culture.
If you want to crack a joke about someone, think 100 times before delivering it. But in college, even if the person felt bad, then the same old Odia dialogue ***** *** ****. Honestly speaking, you learn to be a man if you behave. So all the male folks, if you want to have a good wife respecting you, start behaving like a man not a hooligan.
I still remember the Raymond ad. A cool man drawn into an awesome tuxedo and his wife resting her palms on his shoulders. Transition is a terrible thing to accept. But seriously, gone are the days when we could look at a girl, self activate our hormones and pass a lousy comment at her.
Drawing attention to a genuine smile. Coming from office in a hot summer, if someone offers you a chilled glass of water. It feels divine. Something similar happened to me, when i saw the smile on this pretty woman's face. I fell in love with this girl and lucky me, she fell for me too. Maybe my smile comprising of some twisted teeth drew her attention towards me. Now i could justify my genuine smile. Her beautiful smile was always proportional to mine.We stay far away from each other, but the reason of smile is always the same.
I always had the urge to be respected by others. And this woman taught me how to gain respect. I played many a gamble in my life. Changed my style of living, adjusted to the need of hour and justified my statement of being versatile in my CV. Then i started realizing if my versatility was on the higher side. You can mold 1kg of gold into any shape you feel like. But if you try remolding it repeatedly, its quality and quantity shall no longer be retained.
A spider cannot stay on his web, if the edges are not held tightly from the center. And to balance the web, he has to locate the center perfectly.
Trying to build a strong balance in life, but still searching for the perfect center. The good part is, a spider never leaves the web incomplete. Can i be like the spider? Guess all spiders are not that bad.
